Friday, March 2, 2012

Two

Happy Birthday Nora!













I am so lucky to be your Mama. You are a sweet, funny, silly little girl, who is completely fearless and fiercely stubborn. We spend our days watching Baby Signing Time or Sesame Street, cooking in your play kitchen or my real kitchen, coloring, making crafts, spinning around, singing songs, playing tea party, reading books, going to the park when it's nice outside, going to library story time, climbing on EVERYTHING, and eating, eating, eating. We do LOTS of eating!

You're a fantastic eater so far. There are things you're not too fond of, like meat, especially chicken, and pieces of cheese (you'll eat it cooked in things just fine.) For the most part though, you're wiling to try most things and like much more than I expected you too. You love fruit, many vegetables, noodles, lots of grains, eggs in all forms, milk, water, lemonade, and iced tea (decaf only!)

Lately you like to push a dining room chair into the kitchen so you can climb up to help me cook or to steal some fruit. Climbing & eating-two of your favorites together!

For such a good, adventurous eater, you sure are a tiny thing. We think you're around 24 pounds but we'll find out for sure next week at your 2 year checkup with the doctor. You wear mostly 18 month clothes but there are still a few 12 month items in regular rotation in your wardrobe. When I recently took out your 24 months and 2T clothes, it seemed like they were huge, but you'll be in them soon enough.

This year you've grown and learned SO much. You started walking at 14 months, 14 days old and you've barely stopped moving since! You also started talking! You are a great talker, and most of the time we can figure out what you're saying. But when we can't, we can usually figure it out in other ways. You know a lot of ASL from watching Singing Time and Baby Signing Time, and that has been tremendously helpful with communication. There are some words you only say, like "okay!" and others you use both the word and the sign, like "please," "apple" and "doggie." Mama and Daddy have been learning ASL right along with you and feel like it's a good second language, so we intend to keep up with it. I sure hope we do. Your newest development with talking is that you are forming short sentences, like, "open door please" (sounds like "appen dar peez").

You love the water. We took a swim class in December and you really enjoyed it, except when it was too chilly. You also love bath time, washing your hands and just playing with water in the sink.

You LOVE to see yourself on a screen. If I take out my phone or camera to take a photo or video, and you notice, which you always do, you yell out "Baby!" and come running to watch yourself. We have a lot of pictures and videos of you running toward the camera. It's getting tough to get decent photos! We even have a playlist of just videos of you for you to watch to keep you occupied in the high chair while I get something done around the house.

You know all the colors, all of the alphabet by sight and by sign and you can attempt to sing your ABCs but you don't get every letter quite yet. You also know your numbers by sight too.
Speaking of singing, you LOVE music and having us sing you songs. At night before bed, I sing Soft Kitty, and you always request "Twinkle Star" and ABCs over and over and over. In the car, you'd prefer to listen to Signing Time music non-stop (Part of Life, which you call "Hurt" is your favorite) but you'll also accept Adele. Your favorite there is called Take It All, but you just call it "Take It." You have no problem listening to the same song over and over but that gets old for me so we're working on expanding your horizons. Sometimes you get mad when we listen to other things, but that's ok. Another area we are working on where you get frustrated is brushing teeth. You want to do it yourself but we want you to have clean teeth, so we need to help. You're getting good at having your teeth brushed, but once in awhile you won't let an adult do it and when that happens, you don't get a sticker at bedtime and that makes you upset. I'm trying to figure out what the best motivator is for you when it comes to things like this. I'm hoping we'll find out in the coming year.

Other highlights over the last year were our summer vacation to Maine, going to Minneapolis, MN again, our road trip to Maine with Grandma Gail, Sesame Place for New Years Eve, so many more teeth, your first real illness (influenza type B) and your first ER trip and stitches from cutting open your lip. You started out your 1 year old year by being sick for your 1st birthday party and here we are one year later, and you are sick again, on your last day as a one year old. Let's hope that doesn't follow us around to your next birthday!

It's been a fast, action packed year, my girl. You are always on the move, always in a hurry and always keeping me on my toes. I am excited for you to embark on a new year, with all it's wonder and possibility. You are growing and learning and changing so fast. It will be interesting to see how we navigate the age of two. You're your own person now, with opinions and ideas all your own and I think we'll be spending the next year figuring out how to mesh your opinions with ours! Daddy and I are so blessed to have you as our sassy, smart, silly, beautiful girl. Thank you for being exactly you.

I love you, baby.

Mama

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Thursday, December 15, 2011

All done

Nora,

Earlier today, you asked to nurse. You used your fairly new word, milk, and used the first sign you learned and have had for so long now, and asked so sweetly, as you have SO many times before, although most weren't so easy to understand. But today was different. It had been exactly 8 days and 6 hours from the last time we nursed. (I checked the Total Baby app just to see how long it had been.) You'd weaned yourself from that one remaining morning feeding, only nursing for a few short minutes that last time. That day I knew we were done. So when you asked today, I was torn. I loved sharing those special moments with you, holding you close, seeing you smile up at me. I missed it, so I was torn. But is time to move on, so for the first time in your life, I said no baby, we're all done.

Breastfeeding you for 21 months and 4 days was a pleasure. Daddy and I worked so hard so that you would have the chance to nurse. We wanted that for you so badly, for you to have all the benefits that breastmilk can give, and for you and me to have the bond that nursing brings. And we did it. Those first 9 days were hard, SO hard, but through all the supplemental nursing systems, syringes, and whatever else we used to feed you, we knew we were doing the best for you. Once your tongue tie was resolved, you and I had a much easier time. We had our rough patches, like when you first got teeth, but we worked through them together.

I learned a lot from those 21 months and 4 days-things I never considered when I decided I wanted you to breastfeed. Most important in those lessons, it taught me that no matter what, I would always fight for what was best for you. Daddy and I fought for you to be able to breastfeed, we took the harder path because we felt breastfeeding was that important. We will always do everything in our power to give you the opportunity to do your best in life, even if it puts us on a harder road, even if you may not always agree with what we think is best.

So as you asked for milk again, I asked if you wanted Moo. You smiled and we went to the kitchen for a glass of "Moo". Eventually, you'll stop calling cows milk "Moo" and it will become milk. That will be sad for me, I'm sure, as I wonder if that means you don't remember when milk came from Mama. Because I won't forget. I won't forget the way you'd rub your tiny hand across from my one shoulder to the other as you fed. I won't forget how you'd pull off, smile and laugh. Or how you'd reach up and pat my face. Or play the game where you'd push my head from one side to the other and back again, giggling as you ate happily. I won't forget when you'd finish up on one side, hop off my lap to go play, freeze in your tracks, turn back and say, "otter side?" just like you did on the last day you nursed. December 7th, the day your daddy and I met in person, also the day you weaned. I'll never forget it.

I love you more than you could ever know, my sweet girl.

Love,

Mama

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Sunday, September 25, 2011

A Whirlwind Weekend

Last weekend we went to Minneapolis, MN to volunteer for the Liz Logelin Foundation and to see friends.

This was our 2nd year volunteering for the LLF and our 3rd trip to Minneapolis.

The flights, both there and back, were pretty painless. Nora was restless and loud before takeoff but settled in once we were able to access our carry on luggage and the toys and snacks they carried. One person commented that she had lungs like an opera singer but I thought she did great. Just a few screeches here & there.




We had a lot of fun while we were in Minneapolis. We arrived on Thursday and got ourselves settled into the hotel. While Nora napped & Travis watched TV, I got to spend a little time with Becky and Gina. Becky sent me & Gina on an errand to Home Depot. We failed at acquiring the necessary stakes but we had fun anyway. That night we had a nice dinner with Nancy at The Bulldog. Best tater tots ever!

After breakfast at the hotel on Friday morning, we spent almost 2 hours taking photos with Nancy! She took about 900 pictures and we changed Nora's outfit 6 times!




Nora had a blast running around, climbing stairs, playing with rocks, crawling up hills and running after Nancy's squeaker.




We grabbed some lunch at Potbelly (YUM!) and enjoyed their live music. Then things went a little haywire.

Only a few minutes after being back at the hotel for naptime, Nora & Travis were playing in the bedroom when Nora fell on the low windowsill and sliced her lower lip clear through. So. Much. Blood. Travis was calm & collected but I was a little loopy, insisting I change my shirt before I took my poor girl from him. Not my finest moment.




Nancy gave us info on a hospital and off we went to Fairview Southdale. We didn't wait too long before being taken to triage and not long after that before we were back in an exam room. The bleeding had stopped on it's own (good thing because Nora wouldn't let us put any pressure on it) and Nora was in good spirits. She had fun running around the waiting room but wasn't thrilled about being cooped up in the exam room. Thankfully we had a real room with a door, not just a curtain.




The doctor explained that Nora's lip would heal without stitches but he'd prefer to do the stitches so her lip would heal evenly. That
was our thought as well, so that's what we did.


After a dose of ketamine (!) they put three stitches in the left side of Nora's lower lip.


She didn't cry out in pain, but there was some wiggling & unhappiness involved. Travis said I talk when I'm nervous because I never shut up the whole time. Oops!


When Nora started to come around we went back to her room. Now, by come around, I do not mean she was awake & alert. Oh no! She was far from it. The was flying high. She couldn't stay still, kept saying Mama & Dada over and over, and was just all over the place. I now understand why Special K is a party drug.



Once Nora could drink from a straw, we were sent on our way. We grabbed some soft foods for Nora (low residue/soft food diet) and Tylenol from the nicest Target I've ever seen, then went back to the hotel. With the Celebration of Hope just an hour away, we weren't sure if we should leave Nora with the sitter or not. The doctor said she'd sleep a lot and we knew she was exhausted after her long morning & no nap, so we decided to go. Nancy's sister assured us they'd be fine and they were. Nora had a few pouches of food for dinner, they played and Nora went right to sleep and slept soundly all night.

Meanwhile, Travis & I went to the COH. We won one item in the silent auction and assisted with the live action portion since we missed our original volunteering duties. Matt and the other widows who spoke reminded us of exactly why we were there. I pray that neither Travis or I are ever in that position but it is nice to know that there is support out there for grieving families if we ever did.

Saturday morning we were up bright & early for the 5k. Travis handled the registration table while I was a roving helper/cranky Nora wrangler. Tylenol helped but I think she was still in pain and out of it from the drugs. She was definitely not herself.


It didn't help that everyone was eating muffins and bagels-things she could definitely not eat. Poor baby.

Once the 5k wrapped up, we finally got down to see Minnehaha Falls, which we missed last year because it was dark when we finished.


Then off to the 5-8 Club for lunch With Gina, Nancy, Cara and her girls. We went with fried mushrooms & pouches for Nora and bacon cheddar Juicy Lucy's for me & Travis.


After naptime for me and Nora, Becky & Julia, Rachel, Adam & Susy and Gina came by the hotel to go through hand me downs from Gina's girls. We brought home an entire fall/winter wardrobe for Nora! The girls played with books & piles of clothes while we all sorted and talked. It was nice to have some downtime with them while the girls played. Afterwards, Gina joined us for dinner at Noodles which was SO YUMMY! I wish we had one. So simple but good! Then poor Gina had to help me with a massive blowout. Yikes, Nora! And thanks Gina!


Sunday before the flight home, we had hotel breakfast (brunch plans with the Tuttles was cancelled when poor Ryan got sick) and then Becky & Juj came back to play some more. The hotel was attached to Edinborough Park indoor playground so we let the girls run wild.


Juj talks about on her blog so I'll just link over there.

http://wonkerpillar.blogspot.com/2011/09/germs.html

It was so fun to see Nora & Julia play together. I hate that our friends are so far away.

Then off to the airport and home once again!

We're very lucky to have such great friends in and around The MN and we love visiting with them. I'll cross my fingers that we'll be back again next fall.


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Thursday, June 30, 2011

Bad mommy, Good baby

Nora's baby book is completely blank. Not a single word written in it. I say that I'll go back and fill it all in and maybe someday I will but really, it's unlikely. The best laid plans...

Since the baby book didn't go well, my sister suggested I get a calendar and keep track of when Nora took her first steps and said her first words. I kept that up for a few months until the calendar ended up lost in the couch cushions for a few months.

This blog is probably my next attempt at capturing those special moments and milestones. And given the date of the last post, we can all see how well that's going. Other friends with babies Nora's age have the best blogs! I wish I'd started one of those project 365 things so I'd need to post pictures every day but it seems wrong to start that at the end of June.

All of this is to say that I'm not good at tracking things.

Last week Nora and I were on the ferry home from having lunch & a sweaty walk on the Highline with a friend from out of town. A woman and her son sat next to us. She took out a container of bubbles to entertain her son. She realized the angle of the two strollers was blocking Nora's view of the bubbles and asked if it was okay for her to blow towards Nora too. Nora was thrilled to be spun around to join the fun. She clapped and excitedly exclaimed, "Bubble! Bubble!" My jaw dropped. I didn't know she knew how to say bubble! Talking about it with Travis, we realized we haven't been keeping track of when she does things for the first time. Chances are I've tweeted & posted pictures on Flickr of the major stuff but every day she shows us something new she's discovered and I'm afraid we'll forget.

We've been watching Baby Signing Time and Signing Time on and off for months. Each time we take a break and then go back to it, Nora has a communication explosion. New signs or words or both come spilling out of her. I have no doubt that the time she spent watching Baby Signing Time last week while I tackled our massive piles of laundry, was completely responsible for her learning the word and sign for bubble.

So in an effort to remember how quickly her language skills are developing right now, I present the list of Nora's words & signs.

As of 6/27/2011:
Mama (1st word)
Dada
Uh oh
Buh (Balloon)
Ball /sign too
Baby /sign too
Bubble /sign too
Papa
Dog /sign too, plus she recognizes a dog barking as being a dog even if she can't see the dog
All done /sign too
Moo (what we call cow's milk)
No (she's had the word but not the meaning until recently)
Kitty (when prompted)
Nite-nite (and points to her crib if we're in her room)
Down (sounds like dow)
Puppy

Signs only-
Milk
Eat
More
Please
Thank you
Bunny
Bird
There may be more signs we just don't recognize.

When asked where's your ___? she can point to:
Nose
Ears
Hair
Eyes
Toes
Belly

Other fun facts:
Nora does the hand movements for itsy bitsy spider if you sing the song, if she hears the tune or if she hears the word spider.

If you sing Baa Baa Black Sheep, she will chime in with "Baa Baa" when you start the 2nd line, like in a round. It's super cute.



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Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Walking!

Miss Eleanor Quinn took her first steps today! She took two steps from the foot stool to me sitting on the love seat this morning and then took a few more this afternoon to Uncle Kurty. I got the second set on video! Yay! Way to go, Nora! We knew you could do it.

Not long after her first steps




Walking to Uncle Kurt!

YouTube Video

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